Self absorption can have both positive and negative “side-effects”. It is always good to be self secure and love yourself, but it also good to know when is too much. Being too self-absorbed can cause you to lose relationships and cause you to be unhappy. I think that there is a safe zone between being too self-absorbed and being confident. I believe that people become more and more self-absorbed from becoming more insecure with themselves. I believe that people make famous people seem like they are self-absorbed but only because of the fact that they are insecure with themselves and envy their live style.